Archive for Inspired Relationship
Your Vision – Surrounding Yourself With Support
Posted by: | CommentsWe know that the first important step is setting your intention and deciding exactly where you want to go in fertility, birth, breastfeeding and beyond.
Another factor that influences your success in fertility, relationship and parenting is the kind of support you have in your life.
‘You are the average of the five people you spend most of your time with’ (Jim Rohn).
So, if these people doubt your fertility or ability to have a safe, empowering birth for example this will have an impact on your experience (subconsciously or otherwise).
Do the people you spend most of your time with believe in your body’s wisdom, in your capacity to breastfeed with ease or in the possibility that you really can thrive in relationship and parenting?
Surround yourself with people who share your vision.
Join local or on-line groups. Hire a coach and a doula. Read books that support you in the direction of your dreams. Tune into empowering radio and t.v. shows.
Give yourself the permission to take a break from relationships and conversations that are going in another direction.
You are the master of your life.
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
Pregnancy, Fertility and Counting Your Blessings
Posted by: | CommentsWhether wanting to be pregnant or preparing for birth and beyond, counting your blessings is an easy yet powerful way of supporting yourself.
As you become aware of all that is wonderful in your life your focus shifts from fear and anxiety to one of gratitude causing your whole energy and physiology to change.
The vibration that you emit into the universe becomes one of joy and you begin to attract even more experiences and events that will illicit gratitude and trigger feelings of being blessed.
In this state, you are much more attractive to success in fertility or gentle, safe birth.
Take a few minutes to notice all your blessings today no matter how small and know you will be enjoying the natural side effect of supporting your body, your baby, your fertility and your relationship.
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
Pregnancy – Your Energy Field and Your Partner’s Role
Posted by: | CommentsPregnancy brings many changes …some obvious and some more subtle.
Boundaries are blurred as your body opens up to this pregnancy and this new soul who will be, for some time, part of your physical being.
In pregnancy and while breastfeeding, your natural protection from the outside world is less clear so that you can embrace fully the role of mother and the intimacy it involves.
You may find yourself being very sensitive to the environment, to others, their moods, words etc.
Comments that previously would have gone right over your head, may be felt deeply now.
Your partner can really support you at this time by being that additional protection for you and your baby and by filtering out people or information that may cause disturbance so that you can enjoy peace and tranquillity at this time.
Let your partner know how he (or she) can help you. Be clear. He needs your guidance. Give him positive feedback when you do perceive this protection.
This will be nourishing for your relationship and will also help him to ease into his role as father.
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
