Archive for Inspired Miscarriage
Do you Deserve to Be A Mother?
Posted by: | CommentsMany of the questions I receive around challenges in fertility include within them a reason why this woman might be having difficulty.
For example, women comment on alcohol consumption, arguments with partners, abortion, previous miscarriage etc.
But what many of them are sharing is a sense that perhaps they don’t really, fully deserve to be the mother of a healthy, happy baby.
What was your initial reaction when you read the title of this post?
On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate yourself?
1=I am not really good enough to be a mother
10=I am SO good enough to be a mother
What are the images that came up for you when you read this. Where does your mind bring you….to the positive or to the negative?
If you are planning to become pregnant or have experienced challenges in your fertility, it can be useful to see whether your natural response is one of self-criticism or kindness to yourself.
If, somewhere, you are not quite sure if you are good enough to be a mother, your subconscious mind will find evidence of that belief.
Is that what you want? Is it time to release beliefs that take away from the wonder of who you are?
How could you begin that now… and take another step toward success in your fertility, joy in pregnancy and fulfillment in mothering your lovely, healthy baby?
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
Changes To Magical Beginnings For Baby
Posted by: | CommentsIt is my intention to support women in inspired fertility, pregnancy, birth and beyond.
It is also my intention to serve women who have experienced miscarriage.
These groups have very different needs and it does not feel congruent to be posting blogs that may be relevant only to some of my readers.
It has felt as if I was pointing in two directions simultaneously.
As a result, over the coming weeks I will be setting up a very special blog that nourishes and supports women who have had miscarriage.
Miscarriage warrants this special attention and I want to honour that.
And so, magicalbeginningsforbaby.com will now focus entirely on magical beginnings for baby….like the name says…bringing you to where you want to be in fertility, pregnancy, birth and early parenting.
Some readers may be interested in more than one blog and are welcome to be part of both communities. But that choice will be yours.
I look forward to serving more deeply is a result. If you have any questions, suggestions or comments, please let me know.
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
Avoiding Miscarriage & Enjoying Full-term, Healthy Pregancy
Posted by: | CommentsWhat can I do not to miscarry after 5 weeks? Thank you for this question and for joining us here in a space that really honours you, your fertility and your motherhood.
I experienced miscarriage because there was a part of me that was not quite ready yet. Intellectually I was. Physically too, so I thought.
But many of my patterns and habits did not reflect how I truly wanted to be in the world.
My core ached for something more. In my case, one of the issues that miscarriage made crystal clear for me was my need to create sacred space for my new family, to honour my needs and allow myself and others to meet them.
Up to then, the programme I was running was that I was responsible for others…that my needs were not important.
But that is incompatible with universal laws, with the kind of home life I yearned to create for our baby and the kind of mother I really wanted to be.
Something had to give.
Perhaps this resonates with you somewhere.
You might find it useful to allow yourself to really go within and ask what is the learning for you in your experience of miscarriage.
Is there something that needs to change in your life to experience success in your fertility and enjoy a full-term pregnancy and a safe, gentle birth?
Do you need to say ‘no’ to certain things or people and ‘yes’ to love, ease and happiness so that success in pregnancy becomes the next natural step for you?
What can you do now to begin your journey into inspired fertility?
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
