In spite of the fact that each of us comes from a very long line of successful pregnancies, many couples today are finding it difficult to conceive or enjoy a pregnancy until the safe birth or their baby.Indeed, according to Hart (2003) in the British Medical Journal, up to 25% of patients who present for investigation in a reproductive medicine clinic are diagnosed with unexplained fertility. He explains that unexplained infertility is a diagnosis of exclusion. When no other reason for not being able to become pregnant or stay pregnant can be found, unexplained infertility is the diagnosis one receives.Webster’s dictionary defines ‘Unexplained’ as (1) not explained or (2) having the reason or cause not made clear. So a diagnosis of unexplained infertility just means Read the rest of this entry »

From my personal experience of three miscarriages along with my coaching work, it is clear that many women and men who are having difficulty conceiving a baby or completing a healthy pregnancy have what I refer to as ’Vibrational Infertility’.

‘Vibrational Infertility’ is a term I have coined to illustrate what is really happening when you are having difficulties getting pregnant and/or staying pregnant.

We know that everything in the universe is a vibration of energy and information. Our thoughts and feelings make up our own personal vibration and we attract only what is a match to our dominant thoughts and feelings.  Vibrational Infertility explains that there is a difference between the vibration you are emitting and the vibration you want to attract (success in fertility). It happens when you are not (yet) a match for success in pregnancy.This is great news for anybody trying to conceive (and particularly those with a diagnosis of Unexplained Infertility)  because your vibration is not static.

Your body is truly amazing.

But many of us have been brought up without the habit of tuning in and connecting to the processes and rhythms of our physical forms. Often it is only when we are experiencing challenges in fertility or in health that we begin to give our bodies the attention they deserve.

Understanding more about how a healthy woman’s body works supports us in enhancing fertility as whatever you put our attention on grows. So when you are observing at a healthy functioning body…you are attracting that too.

By focusing in on healthy fertility processes you are being even clearer with the universe. It hears as a request whatever you are putting your attention on and brings more of the same

Below is a link to photos of the cervix and how it changes over one menstrual cycle.

Before you view the images and read the content be aware of how you feel as you do so. What does it bring up for you?

This will give you some insight into your vibration and what the universe is hearing from you. Many of us actually feel uncomfortable or queasy with this kind of material.

How do you think your cervix (or her family which in this case is your reproductive system) would feel about that?

How do you perform when in the presence of people who are not comfortable in your company or with the job you have to do? Is there some energy you need to detangle so that the law of attraction can work in your favour to bring you a baby?

Click here  and feel free to share your reaction and insights here.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

I ended up having a cesarean section.  

So what about the law of attraction? How, with my all my preparation, did I manage to create cesarean instead of an orgasmic (or even ordinary …as if that is possible), natural birth experience?

I have had lots of time to reflect on this and the answer lies in the question.

I SO did not want a cesarean section.

I mean, I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY did not want cesarean section.

And with the benefit of hindsight, I can see now that I was far more focused on ‘NOT HAVING CESAREAN’ than on having a natural, vaginal birth.

For example, I was so thrilled to have a doc who did not assume that a cesarean was needed even though I was having twins one of whom (at the time) was in breech.

I wrote a post on ‘the myth that breech babies required cesarean’.

I used many healing techniques to avoid cesarean.

And I so DID NOT WANT CESAREAN. I resisted it at every level of my being. I hated the idea.

And that is why I attracted it. Because I was far more passionate about not having cesarean than I was about having a natural birth.

Instead of investing my energy into having a natural birth, I was fighting the possibility of cesarean.

 And each time I said NO to CESAREAN the universe just heard ‘CESEAREAN’….(it doesn’t hear NO..it just brings us what we focus on whether or not we want it).

And with the precision of this amazing universal law, it delivered exactly what I had given most of my attention to and my beautiful girls made their safe, gentle entry into this beautiful world through a very discrete incision in my pubis.

Are you fighting against or flowing towards what you really want in your fertility and birth experience?

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

Today is International Passion Day!!!

We can easily find ourselves just going through the motions or challenges of fertility, pregnancy, birth and parenting. Sometimes it seems like all we meet are bumps on the road.

But we are here for much more than that.

We were born to be joyful and exuberant as we journey through this life.

Often we are afraid to aim for what we truly want because we don’t feel worthy enough, competent enough or deserving enough.

But your passion for creating new life, enjoying a magical birth experience, thriving in motherhood, sacred family life, and enjoying loving, happy relationship is the pulse of the universe expressing itself through you.

What you love and God’s will for you are the same (Janet Bray Attwood and Christ Attwood).

Hand in hand with every desire we have comes the ability to realise it. We can only ever really want for what is possible.

A newborn does not desire to walk. A 3 month old has no interest in speaking. Their passions lie perfectly in the range of possibility in relation to their abilities, skills and vibration.

The same applies to you.

So whatever you are passionate about, know that having the passion is a sign that you are ready to create that reality and take steps to realise your dream NOW.

Click here to view a short video!

With passion,

Deirdre Morris

Many pregnant women have concerns about Down’s Syndrome during pregnancy.

Amniocentesis, a test which checks for chromosomal abnormalities, is par for the course in many places. We decided not to take it.

Firstly, we are very sure that we want both of these babies regardless. And secondly, I want my babies to have the joy of just being babies for as long as possible rather than coming with a label before they are even born.

None the less, a dream I had about having a child with Down’s Syndrome revealed to be that I did feel anxiety around the idea that one of our twins might have this diagnosis. 

Even though, I have had the good fortune of working with people with disability including Down’s Syndrome and I realise that each child is a precious, perfect gift….. I noticed worry when I thought about this happening.

On exploring it further, I came to recognise that I was afraid that people would judge me for waiting…..for being a more mature mum……a high risk. So I decided to take my own advice.(Click here for more on high risk pregnancy.)

But because concern about Down’s Syndrome is so real for many pregnant women, Joanne Roibu and myself have recorded a session of Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) that specifically addresses the ‘Fear That My Baby Will Have Down’s Syndrome’. We will be including it in our audio programme for pregnant women and that will be available soon.

EFT is very powerful for removing the charge and the worry around an issue and we believe that all pregnant mums and dads (and babies in utero) deserve to feel calm, peaceful and joyful during pregnancy and beyond.

Incidentally, I had another dream recently in which a woman I knew had given birth to a baby with Down’s Syndrome. In the dream I wondered why this mum hadn’t told me about the diagnosis. Then it hit me. She hadn’t told me because it didn’t matter!

I woke up very happy because I knew this to be the truth!

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

A while back I blogged about the wisdom of the female body and how it clearly tells us what is core to a woman’s fertility. Click here for more on that.

Today I want to tune into the wisdom of the male body.

The male contribution to conception and pregnancy is sometimes undervalued. While a woman’s body is much more involved in the development of the baby, a man’s input is essential to allow this to happen.

But sperm alone is not what a man brings to the equation. He also brings a beautiful message from creation. In order for a man to contribute his sperm to create a baby, he must experience a high level of excitement. Ejaculation will not occur unless excitement and pleasure are present in the experience.

In other words, excitement and enjoyment of the physical are fundamental to creating new life. They are not side effects, they are part of the energy of creation from which we all came.

You can use this insight to support your fertility. In your quest to become pregnant and have a baby how about planning to allow more excitement into your life and relationship so that this life giving ingredient is included in your fertility plan.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris 

Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) is the most common endocrine disorder in women of child bearing years (Broomsma et al, 2008) and PCOS is associated with infertility, frequent first trimester miscarriage, and an increased risk of gestational diabetes (Goldenburg &Glueck, 2008). PCOS can be devastating for those with this diagnosis.

One of the most significant issues associated with polycystic ovaries syndrome is that the body produces an excess of male hormones known as androgens. There is an imbalance between the male and the female hormones in favour of the former.

We know from the law of attraction that in order for something to manifest in your experience, you must be (in some way) a vibrational equivalent to it.

So, with regard to Polycystic Ovaries Syndrome your beliefs/thoughts and feelings (conscious or otherwise) are in alignment with PCOS.

That does not mean that one has to be thinking about fertility challenges or polycystic ovaries syndrome for it to appear in your reality. What is means is that the vibration of PCOS is in some way a match for what is going on in your consciousness.

We are living in a patriarchal society in which ‘maleness’ and manhood is valued more the ‘femaleness’ and womanhood. We have been taught that expression of emotion or listening to our intuition is somewhat inferior to being strong, taking action and getting things done.

In this environment, it is easy to understand how a woman’s body might (unconsciously) expend more energy in producing androgen…which is vibrationally connected to maleness (and what has been deemed as most important in society up until now) because this mirrors the messages we may have received during childhood.

To read a previous post about how you can support yourself with PCOS click here.

I would love to hear your comments on this.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

I mentioned before that myself and Life Mastery Guide Joanne Roibu are putting together audio programmes for success in Pregnancy, Birth and Breastfeeding with Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). Click here to read that blogpost.

Some of you will be familiar with EFT which is a marvellous tool that helps to release blocks to physical, mental and emotional well-being by tapping on certain energy points in the body (linked to different meridians as identified in Chinese medicine).

Well, Joanne will also be running an 8 week EFT teleseminar series ‘Removing Blocks To Success With EFT’ in which she will skillfully guide participants through different success related themes to clear out blocks (conscious or otherwise) you may have to success.

Joanne will be hosting a blog talk radio show and providing a demonstration on air to give you some insight into how powerful this technique is particularly when guided by an excellent coach. I will be the guinea pig!

Regardless of what kind of success you seek..from fertility to financial freedom, this show is worth tuning into. Listen in live this Saturday 6th of September at 1pm Eastern Time or 7pm Central European Time or tune in later.

Partners and children (even babies) can benefit too.  

Click here for the link to the show.

For more information on Joanne’s great value 8 week programme click here.

See you on the show! 

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

As you have probably noticed, I have not made any posts since the turn of the month.

That is because I was bringing to completion my new e-book ‘Get Pregnant and Stay Pregnant with the Law of Attraction’ and everything else took a back seat.

I am delighted to report that it is finished and will be available for sale in about a month.

The book shares a step-by-step process to bring you into alignment with success in pregnancy and aims to serve women who have experienced fertility challenges as well as women who want to consciously conceive and bring a new soul into the world with ease and confidence. 

In joy,

Deirdre Morris