What images come to mind when you hear the phrase ‘she fell pregnant’?

 The term ‘falling pregnant’ evokes in me an image of a careless woman tripping to the floor. It implies some mishap for sure and sounds as though pregnancy is something that has happened, by chance almost, to this woman.  

‘Falling pregnant’ conceals the truth. It hides the power of the woman who has chosen consciously to bring forth new life into the world through her body. It does not so much as hint at her ability to engage in deliberate creation.

 And it sounds as though her partner has done something to her…overlooking her joyful, conscious participation in co-creation with the father of her baby.

Words matter. They shape our experience. As one book reminds us ‘In the beginning was the word’. 

So I in invite you to acknowledge your power and consider ‘becoming pregnant’, ‘embracing pregnancy’ or ‘allowing pregnancy’ as you consciously participate in the magical conception of your new baby.

The only obstacles between you and pregnancy with a healthy baby are your current thoughts and beliefs (some may be unconscious).

So if you are asking this question from a place of joyful expectation knowing that in each moment you are moving towards the dream of becoming pregnant and giving birth to a happy, healthy baby….you are moving towards it.

If you are asking this question from a place of frustration and sadness, the message you are sending out to the universe is one of loss, powerlessness and fear.

In this frame of mind you are actually moving away from the joy of having the baby you want.

So stay focused on the pregnancy and your healthy baby. Imagine the circumstances in which you would love to conceive your baby.

See yourself glowing in pregnancy with a beautiful, big bump. Visualise the birth and baby emerging safely and gently with ease.

Hear the midwife congratulating you on your healthy, happy baby.

Feel fully the joy of that. Feel baby on your breast. Smell your baby. Hear the first cries.  

Revisit this scene often. And trust that it is coming at the very perfect moment for all of you.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

Polycystic Ovary Syndrome  (PCOS) occurs when the the body produces too many androgens (hormones) and the ovaries do not produce eggs.

Too much androgen prevents the eggs from developing fully and they end up as cysts in a woman’s ovaries.

At some level the body is not in vibrational alignment with allowing full expression of womanhood (in this case ovulating). There is something in the energy field (conscious or unconscious thoughts, beliefs and feelings) that is preventing successful ovulation.

Dr. Christine Northrup, who wrote Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom (a book I highly recommend), suggests that a woman can help to restore cyclic ovulatory function by exploring (and releasing) negative messages that she may have internalised from childhood about being a fertile woman.

You could begin this process by allowing yourself to write freely whatever comes up when you think of female fertility and fertile women.

Also, you might like to begin to imagine a tube containing the hormone androgen in your brain. Now visualise the volume of androgen reducing in quantity to a mark on the tube that says ‘optimum level for my healthy ovulation’.

Start talking to your ovaries and sending them love.

And you may be interested in learning the energy management system I teach in the Inspired Fertility Coaching Programme so that you can deliberately move up the vibrational scale into alignment with success in ovulating and all areas of your fertility. 

In joy,

Deirdre Morris