In spite of the fact that each of us comes from a very long line of successful pregnancies, many couples today are finding it difficult to conceive or enjoy a pregnancy until the safe birth or their baby.Indeed, according to Hart (2003) in the British Medical Journal, up to 25% of patients who present for investigation in a reproductive medicine clinic are diagnosed with unexplained fertility. He explains that unexplained infertility is a diagnosis of exclusion. When no other reason for not being able to become pregnant or stay pregnant can be found, unexplained infertility is the diagnosis one receives.Webster’s dictionary defines ‘Unexplained’ as (1) not explained or (2) having the reason or cause not made clear. So a diagnosis of unexplained infertility just means Read the rest of this entry »

From my personal experience of three miscarriages along with my coaching work, it is clear that many women and men who are having difficulty conceiving a baby or completing a healthy pregnancy have what I refer to as ’Vibrational Infertility’.

‘Vibrational Infertility’ is a term I have coined to illustrate what is really happening when you are having difficulties getting pregnant and/or staying pregnant.

We know that everything in the universe is a vibration of energy and information. Our thoughts and feelings make up our own personal vibration and we attract only what is a match to our dominant thoughts and feelings.  Vibrational Infertility explains that there is a difference between the vibration you are emitting and the vibration you want to attract (success in fertility). It happens when you are not (yet) a match for success in pregnancy.This is great news for anybody trying to conceive (and particularly those with a diagnosis of Unexplained Infertility)  because your vibration is not static.

Your body is truly amazing.

But many of us have been brought up without the habit of tuning in and connecting to the processes and rhythms of our physical forms. Often it is only when we are experiencing challenges in fertility or in health that we begin to give our bodies the attention they deserve.

Understanding more about how a healthy woman’s body works supports us in enhancing fertility as whatever you put our attention on grows. So when you are observing at a healthy functioning body…you are attracting that too.

By focusing in on healthy fertility processes you are being even clearer with the universe. It hears as a request whatever you are putting your attention on and brings more of the same

Below is a link to photos of the cervix and how it changes over one menstrual cycle.

Before you view the images and read the content be aware of how you feel as you do so. What does it bring up for you?

This will give you some insight into your vibration and what the universe is hearing from you. Many of us actually feel uncomfortable or queasy with this kind of material.

How do you think your cervix (or her family which in this case is your reproductive system) would feel about that?

How do you perform when in the presence of people who are not comfortable in your company or with the job you have to do? Is there some energy you need to detangle so that the law of attraction can work in your favour to bring you a baby?

Click here  and feel free to share your reaction and insights here.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

A while back I blogged about the wisdom of the female body and how it clearly tells us what is core to a woman’s fertility. Click here for more on that.

Today I want to tune into the wisdom of the male body.

The male contribution to conception and pregnancy is sometimes undervalued. While a woman’s body is much more involved in the development of the baby, a man’s input is essential to allow this to happen.

But sperm alone is not what a man brings to the equation. He also brings a beautiful message from creation. In order for a man to contribute his sperm to create a baby, he must experience a high level of excitement. Ejaculation will not occur unless excitement and pleasure are present in the experience.

In other words, excitement and enjoyment of the physical are fundamental to creating new life. They are not side effects, they are part of the energy of creation from which we all came.

You can use this insight to support your fertility. In your quest to become pregnant and have a baby how about planning to allow more excitement into your life and relationship so that this life giving ingredient is included in your fertility plan.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris 

How do I attract the highest soul for the family? What a wonderful question!!!

(1) The very first step is to intend to attract the highest soul for your family.

(2) Become as clear as you can about what you mean by ‘attracting the highest soul for your family’ because that statement will probably mean different things to different people.

Sometimes it can be useful to acknowledge first what you don’t want as this brings you clarity about what you do want.

So for example, if you don’t want tension, arguments etc. They you also know that you do want harmony, peace and fun.

Many of us are operating from the belief that ’pain is necessary for growth’ or that ‘you can’t have it all’.

But we can create it the way we want it. And we can grow into more and more joy without experiencing the contrasts provided by extreme conditions of pain and suffering.

So be clear about what you would love for your baby, for yourself, for your family (focusing in particular on the feelings).

(3) Involve the rest of the family if that feels good.

 You can all join in together asking for the perfect baby who will thrive with you and with whom you will all thrive. You could draw a picture of the family with the new baby and everybody feeling really good, loved, cared for and happy.

(4) Know that it is alright to ask for what you really desire. You are a conscious creator and are here to experience the life that you love.

(5) Trust that it is already given.

So when you conceive and baby comes along just know that this soul is the perfect one for your family.

When we adopt that perspective we can easily see the opportunity for growth in everything that unfolds in your baby’s life.

This last tip also helps you stay grounded in your sacred feminine power because you realise that every situation regardless of how it appears, is calling forth in you your infinite wisdom, commpassion and power to turn challenge into gold.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

What images come to mind when you hear the phrase ‘she fell pregnant’?

 The term ‘falling pregnant’ evokes in me an image of a careless woman tripping to the floor. It implies some mishap for sure and sounds as though pregnancy is something that has happened, by chance almost, to this woman.  

‘Falling pregnant’ conceals the truth. It hides the power of the woman who has chosen consciously to bring forth new life into the world through her body. It does not so much as hint at her ability to engage in deliberate creation.

 And it sounds as though her partner has done something to her…overlooking her joyful, conscious participation in co-creation with the father of her baby.

Words matter. They shape our experience. As one book reminds us ‘In the beginning was the word’. 

So I in invite you to acknowledge your power and consider ‘becoming pregnant’, ‘embracing pregnancy’ or ‘allowing pregnancy’ as you consciously participate in the magical conception of your new baby.

The only obstacles between you and pregnancy with a healthy baby are your current thoughts and beliefs (some may be unconscious).

So if you are asking this question from a place of joyful expectation knowing that in each moment you are moving towards the dream of becoming pregnant and giving birth to a happy, healthy baby….you are moving towards it.

If you are asking this question from a place of frustration and sadness, the message you are sending out to the universe is one of loss, powerlessness and fear.

In this frame of mind you are actually moving away from the joy of having the baby you want.

So stay focused on the pregnancy and your healthy baby. Imagine the circumstances in which you would love to conceive your baby.

See yourself glowing in pregnancy with a beautiful, big bump. Visualise the birth and baby emerging safely and gently with ease.

Hear the midwife congratulating you on your healthy, happy baby.

Feel fully the joy of that. Feel baby on your breast. Smell your baby. Hear the first cries.  

Revisit this scene often. And trust that it is coming at the very perfect moment for all of you.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

Polycystic Ovary Syndrome  (PCOS) occurs when the the body produces too many androgens (hormones) and the ovaries do not produce eggs.

Too much androgen prevents the eggs from developing fully and they end up as cysts in a woman’s ovaries.

At some level the body is not in vibrational alignment with allowing full expression of womanhood (in this case ovulating). There is something in the energy field (conscious or unconscious thoughts, beliefs and feelings) that is preventing successful ovulation.

Dr. Christine Northrup, who wrote Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom (a book I highly recommend), suggests that a woman can help to restore cyclic ovulatory function by exploring (and releasing) negative messages that she may have internalised from childhood about being a fertile woman.

You could begin this process by allowing yourself to write freely whatever comes up when you think of female fertility and fertile women.

Also, you might like to begin to imagine a tube containing the hormone androgen in your brain. Now visualise the volume of androgen reducing in quantity to a mark on the tube that says ‘optimum level for my healthy ovulation’.

Start talking to your ovaries and sending them love.

And you may be interested in learning the energy management system I teach in the Inspired Fertility Coaching Programme so that you can deliberately move up the vibrational scale into alignment with success in ovulating and all areas of your fertility. 

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

Pregnancy….is this what you truly desire?

Or does it seem like the next goal to achieve in life? Are you sure that having a baby is really what YOU want?

It is ok to ask yourself those questions. Because you can do whatever feels right for you. You too are a unique expression of creation. You are not here to fit in with the crowd.

So if your approach to pregnancy is one of  ‘if it is meant to be’….you can give yourself permission to go deep into yourself and discover if  having a baby is what wants to be expressed through you now.

Your value as a person and a woman are intrinsic. They are not conditional on having a baby.

It is not unusual to want to have a baby and to hold the belief that becoming parents will interfere with your relationship, limit your freedom and tie you down.

So when you ask yourself if you really, really want a baby…ask from the place where anything is possible.

In other words, if you thought that being pregnant and having a baby could actually  enhance your relationship and bring you into a new freedom in your life what would you be doing?

This helps you discover what is really right for you now and also gets you in touch with energy that may be tangled in some way for you.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris

At around the 21st day following conception, a neural tube is formed in the embryo.

Initially, this tube does not close completely. Pores are present until the approx. the 25th day.  The last pores close on the 26th and 27th day of gestation and are at located at baby’s (the embryo’s) head and tail.

Spina Bifida is caused by failure of pore closure (J.Upledger).

So along with enjoying a healthy diet including folic acid, you can support your baby around this time by reminding him to close all the pores at the perfect time.

Visualise the tube closed fully and your baby enjoying excellent health and flexibility in his spine and body… now and after birth. You can also imagine a golden, nourishing light around your baby helping in this process.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris