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Fertility Statistics Over 40: What They Really Say About Your Chances of Pregnancy
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Even those of us with little or no interest in pregnancy or fertility are still familiar with the idea of a woman’s biological clock.
In other words, it is a deep seated belief in our collective human story that once a woman reaches a certain biological age she is no longer fertile and cannot have children.
When we look around, we find evidence of just that…fewer women in their forties having babies than in their thirties….and hardly any women in their fifties and sixties becoming mothers.
Fertility statistics too confirm this observation. So, when it comes to you wanting to get pregnant after trying for a long time or over the age of 40 you might begin to wonder if it will ever happen for you.
Perhaps you are even presented with statistics to demonstrate the chances of you succeeding to conceive naturally or with assisted fertility therapies (IUI, IVF etc.).
However, what most fertility experts dont realize is that fertility statistics are just a snap shot of what has already happened…..what is history and what was manifested as a result of the expectations, feeling and beliefs that society and individual women had at the time.
That is all they reflect….what thoughts and beliefs women, researchers, fertility practitioners and society collectively manifested.
While most fertility experts may not realize it, fertility statistics for women of any age are not an indication in any way of an individual woman’s chances for pregnancy success (unless of course she believes them).
With an understanding of the law of attraction, bleak fertility statistics have no bearing whatsoever on your chances of a healthy pregnancy (even if you are 45, 50, 60 or more) …..unless your expectations are in line with these statistics…unless you are a vibrational match to that reality.
The Truth is that You are an amazing creator and can have a baby regardless of what anybody else believes or has achieved.
You are the one who determines what you attract into your experience… and that includes healthy pregnancies and babies!
What is your impression of fertility statistics? What is your experience of them? What I share, Does it resonate with you or not?
Please share your comments below. I would love to hear them.
Full Moon Fertility and The Law of Attraction
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Today marked the start of a full moon.
I am coming to LOVE the moon and how she guides women.
For eons, the universe (God/Goddess) has been giving us clues about the importance of the moon for women and female fertility
- 28 days menstrual cycles (mirroring the length of time it takes for one complete moon cycle)
- 40 weeks of pregnancy (10 lunar months)
The moon matters. Our connection to her is a reminder that we are not alone in our fertility.
However, the moon is also telling us about how we can harness the law of attraction.
As I said today is a full moon. There she is in all her glory…perfect, bright, powerful, beautiful, radiant, amazing, and magical.
What is most fascinating is that the moon is always full! It’s just that at other times we can’t see her fullness. The darkness is caused by shadows cast onto the surface of the moon.
But the truth is that the moon is still always there in all her glory.
The same applies to your fertility.
You might have the shadows of your age, your history, diagnosis etc. being cast on your fertility. But the full moon of your fertility is there nonetheless.
Others might be focused on the shadow. You are too old. You only have 1% chance to get pregnant with this round of IVF etc. etc.
But the shadow is the illusion.
Don’t be fooled. Just because others can’t see the fullness of your fertility does NOT diminish it even a dot!
You ARE fertile.
Focusing on the truth of your fertility will harness the law of attraction and bring you more evidence of this.
You can begin by sharing below anything that confirms your fertility!
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
Forgive & Make Room For Your Pregnancy Success
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What has forgiveness got to do with fertility?
A lot. Many of us are holding on to victim stories about our lives and experiences that add to the soup of our vibration.
Some of us have been hurt in horrible ways. Of course you can justify how you feel. However, that is not the point.
As creators of our experience, whenever we share our victim stories we are keeping that vibration alive in our energy. Does this apply to you?
With the law of attraction, the universe has no choice but to bring to you more of the same….more reasons to hurt or to feel sad, disappointed and powerless when trying to have a baby.
Being part of a conventional support group can actually serve to re-create more and more of the same unless that group is consciously creating a new paradigm.
We all have stuff to forgive. The person that we most often need to forgive is ourselves.
In my experience, women who are presenting with challenges in fertility often have in common a judgment about our bodies, our womanhood, with others for not understanding, with ourselves for not trying earlier or for not getting results fast enough, with miscarriage, with partners, with doctors, with friends who don´t get it, with the system, our childhood, our own parents and on and on…..
This all contributes to the prayer you are sending out the universe…. and what you are attracting back …in fertility and life.
You can change that very easily now. My friend and colleague Joanne Roibu has created a beautiful forgiveness visualization which serves powerfully to help you let go of forgiveness and come into a place of joy allowing in your fertility and life.
For a tiny investment, you can have this visualization to use at your own leisure whenever you notice disappointment, anger etc coming up.
A simple yet profound tool, that will absolutely support you in coming into alignment with your pregnancy success.
You can change your story right now. Joanne is having a special end of summer offer that you will want to check out for sure. Click here and begin to co-create a new magical pregnancy success story now.
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
