Archive for March, 2008
Pregnancy, Fertility and Counting Your Blessings
Posted by: | CommentsWhether wanting to be pregnant or preparing for birth and beyond, counting your blessings is an easy yet powerful way of supporting yourself.
As you become aware of all that is wonderful in your life your focus shifts from fear and anxiety to one of gratitude causing your whole energy and physiology to change.
The vibration that you emit into the universe becomes one of joy and you begin to attract even more experiences and events that will illicit gratitude and trigger feelings of being blessed.
In this state, you are much more attractive to success in fertility or gentle, safe birth.
So take a few minutes to notice all your blessings today no matter how small and know you will be enjoying the natural side effect of supporting your body, your baby, your fertility and your relationship.
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
Pregnancy-Your Energy Field and Your Partner’s Role
Posted by: | CommentsPregnancy brings many changes …some obvious and some more subtle.
Boundaries are blurred as your body opens up to this pregnancy and this new soul who will be, for some time, part of your physical being.
In pregnancy and while breastfeeding, your natural protection from the outside world is less clear so that you can embrace fully the role of mother and the intimacy it involves.
You may find yourself being very sensitive to the environment, to others, their moods, words etc.
Comments that previously would have gone right over your head, may be felt deeply now.
Your partner can really support you at this time by being that additional protection for you and baby and by filtering out people or information that may cause disturbance so that you can enjoy peace and tranquillity at this time.
Let your partner know how he (or she) can help you. Be clear. He needs your guidance. Give him positive feedback when you do perceive this protection.
This will be nourishing for your relationship and will also help him to ease into his role as father.
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
Fertility- Do you REALLY, REALLY want to be Pregnant?
Posted by: | CommentsPregnancy….is this what you truly desire?
Or does it seem like the next goal to achieve in life? Are you sure that having a baby is really what YOU want?
It is ok to ask yourself those questions. Because you can do whatever feels right for you. You too are a unique expression of creation. You are not here to fit in with the crowd.
So if your approach to pregnancy is one of ‘if it is meant to be’….you can give yourself permission to go deep into yourself and discover if having a baby is what wants to be expressed through you now.
Your value as a person and a woman are intrinsic. They are not conditional on having a baby.
It is not unusual to want to have a baby and to hold the belief that becoming parents will interfere with your relationship, limit your freedom and tie you down.
So when you ask yourself if you really, really want a baby…ask from the place where anything is possible.
In other words, if you thought that being pregnant and having a baby could actually enhance your relationship and bring you into a new freedom in your life what would you be doing?
This helps you discover what is really right for you now and also gets you in touch with energy that may be tangled in some way for you.
In joy,
Deirdre Morris
