The question ‘How can I cure my infertility’ came in again recently.

I will respond in several posts put for today I want to focus on the actual question itself.

As I have mentioned before, the quality of the answers you receive depends on the quality of the questions you pose (John D.Martini) and indeed they shape your life.

So this question about curing infertility is good. Within it lies a sense of hope. There is an assumption that your infertility can be cured. And that is pointing you in the right direction… facing fertility.

However, the word infertility can feel very heavy, like a life sentence of sorts. So while you are pointing toward fertility, you are left feeling somewhat weak.

I suggest a rewording… ‘How can I enhance my fertility and experience success in pregnancy and birth?’

This questions assumes fertility (even if it is limited in some way) and brings you into the outcome your really want..which is pregnancy, birth and a baby.

It is much easier to enhance something healthy that already exists than fix something that is ‘broken’.

So choose questions that empower you and assume fertility and your natural capacity to experience success in pregnancy, birth, parenting and beyond.

 In joy,

 Deirdre Morris

Deirdre@magicalbeginningsforbaby.com