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There is a belief that we are victims of our genes…that they are beyond our influence in general..not just in pregnancy, fertility and birth.

However, research done by Dr. Bruce Lipton (who wrote The Biology of Belief) has demonstrated that placing genetically identical (cloned) cells into different environments produced completely different results.

For example, one cell became a muscle cell. Another turned into a fat cell… and a third became a bone cell.

They stared out identical. The only variable that was different was the environment.

According to Dr. Lipton, the mind (your thoughts and beliefs) is the environment of your body and it influences what your cells become. 

So whether you want to experience a full-term, healthy pregnancy… a safe, empowering birth OR regain your shape easily after birth, YOU have the power to influence this.

You can begin to change the environment of your cells…..by activating new beliefs that really support you on this journey.

In joy,

Deirdre

There is an assumption that most women become pregnant and give birth some time during their child bearing years.

 And it may seem, that the value or depth of women who have chosen (voluntarily or otherwise) a different path is somehow less.

This idea sometimes pushes women (for whom this road is not their true path) into joyless motherhood.  

 It also has the effect of making the experience of miscarriage or infertility even more painful and isolating.

In addition, it causes us to undervalue the beautiful, life-giving, powerful paths of women who express their femininity in different ways.

What are your beliefs around this? Because they are shaping your experience of your fertility.

Perhaps it is time to let some of them go?

I am offering the gift of a free consultation session (valued at 300 euro) to those who contact me through the blog in January.

In joy,

Deirdre

Pregnancy & Fertility- my first audio post on the blog!

It is lovely to connect with you in new ways. This audio will give you food for thought as ‘mother’ and ‘motherhood’ generally bring up a lot for all of us!

Click the link below to listen.

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In joy,

Deirdre

Greetings!

One excellent tool for reprogramming your unconscious mind or activating the law of attraction is to write down what you want.

If you are serious about enhancing your fertility or experiencing the pregnancy and birth you long for, develop the daily habit of writing down what you want in this area.

This is a stragegy used by some of the most successful people in business and it works just as effectively in pregnancy and fertility.

Research shows that the very act of writing your goals increases by 200% your chances of achieving them.

 In joy,

 Deirdre Morris  

Greetings, 

Any movement forward in life involves letting go too. 

When you moved from the crawling stage to the walking stage you released your dependency on crawling as your mode of movement and embraced a completely new way.

In the same way, you may now feel the need to let go of habits, patterns or even people from your life.

But there are often thoughts and beliefs too that hold you back from enjoying success in your fertility and ease in pregnancy and birth.

This stage invites you to release guilt, shame and feelings of unworthiness from your life.

Feelings of guilt are often accompanied by a sense that you deserve to be punished …or that you don’t deserve to have what you really want.

And these thoughts CAN interfere (unconsciously) with your fertility and experience of pregnancy.

Set the time aside to write down all the things that you want to forgive yourself (or others) for… no matter how tiny.

In doing this exercise myself, along with forgiving myself for miscarriage, I included breaking something when I was small (it doesn’t matter how daft it might seem to others to be forgiving these).

Spring clean your mind now and free yourself from all guilt and shame.

It is worth it. From the law of attraction perspective, it means that you no longer attract ‘punishment’ that you may unconsciously feel you deserve.

In joy,

Deirdre

Pregnancy is a powerful time.

Not only because of the miracle of new life or the marvellous capacity of the body to stretch into a new shape…

Pregnancy is powerful because of the what is happening on the mental, emotional and spiritual levels too.

It is a time when the veils of ’should’ and ‘have to’ are that bit thinner allowing your true, amazing self to emerge.

Pregnancy is a time when you can feel clearly what you need from within….and the volume of the voice that makes us ‘do what is right’ (according to the culture we are in) is turned down significantly.

Sometimes the momentum of the old programme is so strong that we continue to fight against this wisdom from within and push ourselves as before.

However, the pushing of self that might have been tolerable a few months ago is no longer acceptable to your being or your pregnant body now.

You might find yourself needing more nourishment, comfort, rest, tenderness and time-out. You may feel the need to spend less time with some people who have had a significant presence in your life up to now.

You may yearn for a space to connect with others in an empowering, positive way…. to feel supported and be deeply affirmed.

Your body may make it necessary now for you to state your needs, ask for help and give yourself a break.

THIS IS THE WAY IT IS MEANT TO BE!

This is nature’s perfect way of supporting you to create the nurturing environment you need now in pregnancy and beyond…

You can make the journey a whole lot more enjoyable by considering that what is coming up for you now is part of your own growth and is bringing you where you REALLY DO want to be.

In joy,

Deirdre

We know that much of our behaviour is governed by the unconscious mind. Up to 95% of all thoughts are unconscious.

It makes sense then that our fertility too is effected by our unconscious mind. Indeed, this is confirmed in many therapies such as Family Constellations.

Sessions often reveals that the experience of miscarriage, for example, is often linked to patterns in family that are not at all obvious.

If you are experiencing challenges in your fertility, untangling your thoughts and beliefs around fertility, pregnancy and birth can free you up to enjoy fully your fertility.

I am offering a free consultation session (worth 300 euro) as a gift to those who contact me through the blog during the month of January.

In joy,

Deirdre

As the bells ring in another year, some of you may be feeling that time is running out…another year has passed and you don’t have a baby.

Fear, sadness and grieving may be experienced now as you feel yourself even farther away from your goal of having children.

And it is easy for your life to become consumed with your fertility especially when you really want a baby.

In general, the feelings and thoughts you engage in as you are preoccupied with your fertility are ones of anxiety, fear, disappointment, sadness, lack of trust and even failure.

And the more you of these you feel, the greater the distance you are putting between you and your goal.

So as you write you goals for this year, include goals that have nothing to do with your fertility. Make sure there is fun, joy and love in there too.

I know it can be hard, but you can do it.  And you can get coaching (specific to your fertility), so that you are not alone.

I am offering a free consultation session (worth 300 euro) as a gift for the month of January …. to those who contact me through the blog. Until I update my blog, you can reach me by leaving a post. Your details will remain private.

You CAN let 2008 be a magical beginning for you now.

In joy,

Deirdre Morris