Sometimes, we are actively encouraged not to disclose the news of this wonderful new life until 12 weeks have passed. When we do share, the reaction is often tinged with caution and fear.

Why so? It is true that miscarriage is more common in the first 3 months.  But perhaps there is more to this than concern about miscarriage.

In a way, this response reflects custom in our society… one that informs us that ‘pride comes before a fall’ and advises us not to ‘count your chickens before they are hatched’.

There is an implication that if you are excited or happy you are ‘asking for trouble’.

This perspective has scattered seeds of foreboding and fear onto experiences that are nothing short of miraculous.

It teaches us to hold back on love… just in case. We can see this in relationships of all kinds, not just in early pregnancy.

So we are afraid to welcome this new life. And in that fear, we forget that there is new life. 

A new, unique life has begun already. A precious new person has already arrived.

And just like the rest of us, baby loves to feel welcome. It is so delightful to be at the receiving end of a genuine welcome.

Indeed, a welcoming environment is one in which we naturally thrive. Love is our true nature.

You can give yourself permission to feel love deeply now and revel in this magical time.

Follow your own intution. If it feels right, share with others who can join you in the wonder and celebrate fully with you.